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What if no one
ever talked
to a baby?

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No. 199Brain & BodyPart 47 of 47Fact-checked Oct 11, 2026
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Most people think kids learn to talk because their parents teach them, one sentence at a time. So what if a baby were born and nobody ever spoke to him? What would he come out saying? Over two thousand six hundred years ago, an Egyptian king actually wanted to find out.

An ancient Greek history tells it: he handed two newborns to a shepherd. Feed them milk, he ordered, but never say a word to them. Two years later, the children ran up and cried: Bekos! The king looked it up — a far-off people's word for bread. So he declared theirs the oldest language on Earth.

But it's most likely just a legend. In real life, has a child ever grown up with no one talking to them? Sadly, yes. In nineteen seventy, in Los Angeles, people found a thirteen-year-old girl. She'd been shut in a small room since she was little. Almost no one had ever talked to her.

She picked up words fast — within months, she knew the names of hundreds of things. But years later, she could still only string two or three words together. What order words go in, how to ask a question — she never fully got it. Another girl was found at six and a half, and she'd barely heard speech either. Yet in just over a year, she went from her first word to full sentences.

What made the difference? Age. Scientists suspect the brain has a window when language comes easiest. After ten or so, it gets hard. But cases like these are so rare that the evidence is still thin. So does a baby start talking on his own? Halfway. Around six or seven months, babies start to babble. Even deaf babies raised by parents who sign babble with their little hands. But babbling is just practice. To turn it into words, someone has to answer: he babbles, you reply.

In one experiment: nine-month-old American babies heard a real person speak Chinese, and learned to tell Chinese sounds apart. Put the same person on a screen, and they learned nothing. One child shut away alone won't grow a language. But what about a whole group of kids, with nobody teaching them? In nineteen seventy-seven, Nicaragua opened its first school for deaf children. Before that, each kid had stayed home with a few gestures of their own.

Teachers tried lip-reading. It didn't work. But on the playground and the school bus, the kids signed to each other, and their signs grew in number, and in rules. Younger kids joined and made it faster and finer. In about ten years, a brand-new sign language had simply grown. So here's the answer: a baby no one talks to won't come up with much alone. But give him someone to go back and forth with — even if they are all just kids — and language grows by itself.

Talking isn't taught line by line. It grows out of conversation. So what did you think before — do kids learn to talk by being taught, or by listening?

1

The king's experiment:
"Bekos"

Bekos!

An ancient Greek history says that over 2,600 years ago, an Egyptian king handed two newborns to a shepherd. Feed them milk, he ordered, but never say a single word to them.

Two years later, the children ran up and cried "Bekos!" The king found it was a far-off people's word for "bread" — so he declared theirs the oldest language on Earth.

Only this one book tells the story. It's most likely just a legend.

2

One girl of 13,
one girl of 6½

In real life, there have been children almost no one talked to. What mattered most was how old they were when they were found.

Found at 13
Words came fast,
sentences never did
Los Angeles, 1970. Within months she knew the names of hundreds of things — but years later she still strung only two or three words together, and never mastered word order or questions.
Found at 6½
Full sentences
in just over a year
USA, 1938. She had barely heard speech before. In under two years she went from her first word to long sentences.
age 06½13

The brain may have
a best window for language

The younger, the easier; after about ten, it gets hard. But cases like these are so rare that scientists are still guessing — the evidence is thin.

3

A baby can only
do "half" alone

Around six or seven months, babies start to babble. Even deaf babies raised by parents who sign babble too — with their little hands.

But babbling is just practice.
To become words, someone has to answer.

A real person
They learned
Nine-month-old American babies heard a real person speak Chinese a dozen times, and learned to tell Chinese sounds apart.
The same person on a screen
Nothing learned
Same person, same words — but through a screen, the babies picked up nothing.

How babies usually learn to talk: see our earlier episode.

4

A group of untaught kids
made a language

In 1977, Nicaragua opened its first school for deaf children. Before that, each kid had stayed home with just a few gestures of their own.

Teachers tried to teach Spanish by lip-reading. It didn't work. But on the playground and the school bus, the kids signed to each other, and their signs grew in number and in rules. When younger kids joined, they made it faster and finer.

In about ten years,
a new sign language
had simply grown.

Nobody taught it. Like an instinct, it rose up from the kids themselves.

Talking isn't taught.
It grows out of conversation.
Alone, a child says little.
With someone to go back and forth with, language grows.
What did you think before:
do kids learn to talk by being taught, or by listening?
Samshang × Maddox
Sources: Herodotus, Histories 2.2 (Psamtik's experiment) · Britannica: Genie (feral child) · Curtiss 1977, Genie: A Psycholinguistic Study · Davis 1947, Final note on a case of extreme isolation (the 1938 girl) · Petitto & Marentette 1991, Science (manual babbling in deaf infants) · Kuhl, Tsao & Liu 2003, PNAS (live vs. recorded foreign-language exposure) · Senghas & Coppola 2001, Psychological Science (Nicaraguan Sign Language)
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